"There's no reward in life without risk."
~Barry J. Farber
In order to "win" the game, you have to play. You can't expect to sit on the sidelines, expecting to dream your outcome into being. Yes, dreaming IS important, but you must take action. Anytime you commit yourself to taking action, you are taking a risk. You are putting yourself out there, declaring what you want. You are stating your intention and you must now ante up. Some people are afraid of the risk and allow that fear to derail them. Even though you may not know the outcome for sure, what would you do if you knew you could not fail? Take a chance.
This week: Think about something you REALLY want. Get clear about the outcome you'd like to achieve. Be specific. It can be something small or something big. Now, think about what blocks you from having it? How much of the obstacle to your success is related to fear of taking the risk? Just think about how different your life would be if you took that risk AND were successful? Think carefully about what the rewards are for you in achieving this outcome. Are they big enough to overcome the fear? If not, think about how you might make that outcome even MORE rewarding to you--not just at the end, but also along the way.
Linda Pucci, Ph.D. is a psychologist, life coach and expert in helping people overcome self-sabotage. When fear or limiting beliefs sabotage your best efforts at reaching your dreams, you need to be able to get rid of it. Linda has a number of resources available, and is happy to talk with you about what might be best for you. For more information, go to http://www.innerresourcecenter.com/