“That some achieve great success, is proof to all that others can achieve it as well.”
Being successful isn't magic. It doesn't require special talents, gifts or capabilities, although they can certainly be helpful resources. If you want to be successful, model a successful person. Study how they approach life. What do they think? How do they approach problems and challenges? How do they hold themselves physically? What beliefs do they have? What emotions do they express? How do they show their confidence. Model that. When you behave as successful people do, you begin to adopt valuable attitudes and approaches that will serve you well as you move toward your own success.
This week: Identify someone you know or know of who you deem as successful. Now, think about how they demonstrate their success. How do they behave? What sorts of things do they believe about themselves and about the world? Find out as much as you can about how they do what they do. Write it down. If you can, ask them questions about it. If you don't know them personally, read interviews they have done, or study their life story. What is it that has put them on this path to success? What things do THEY do that you could adopt? Experiment with modelling some of their behavior, beliefs or attitudes and notice what that is like. Modelling others' success is an easy way to get yourself moving along that path to success as well.
Linda Pucci, Ph.D. is a psychologist, life coach and trainer. She specializes in helping people make rapid changes in their lives so that they can live happier and more successful lives. Her business, Inner Resource Center, LLC helps connect people with the resources they need to transform their lives. For more information about her and her programs, go to http://www.innerresourcecenter.com/ .