"The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing."
The New Year presents an opportunity for us to DREAM BIG and to create what we most want. But to do that we must keep our focus on what is the "main thing." What is most important in order to create the life we want? What must we do to keep focused on the main thing and not be distracted by the bright shiny objects that surround us. Our lives are full of opportunities and we must decide which of them most suit the outcome we really want. When you keep the main thing the main thing you can most easily and effectively pursue that outcome.
This week: Decide what is "the main thing" for you some time period--this month or this quarter or this year. What do you really want and need in order to create what you most want? Write it down and post it where you will see it several times during the day. Keep your focus on this main thing during each day for this week. At the end of the day, evaluate how well you did. If you need to do something to keep your focus on the main thing, determine what that is and make adjustments. At the end of the week, decide if you want to continue this exercise for another week. How many weeks will it take for you to have made the main thing the main thing?
Linda Pucci, Ph.D. is a psychologist, life coach and expert at helping people make big changes in their lives. She specializes in helping people determine what is most important in their lives and to rapidly move beyond self-imposed limitations by using her toolbox of solution-focused techniques. For more information and to find resources to help you make changes quickly, go to http://www.innerresourcecenter.com/ .